The Swinger life brings a lot of communication and opening in a relationship.
Many couples agree that sex is a natural component and a source of pleasure for the human life. There are couples that perceive the swinger life as an incentive for the improving of the relationship, both on sexual and emotional level, swing may open many aspects of a relationship, it is pleasant the developing of relationship with the people that have common interests and attitudes.
In swing, the dating between couples can be resumed to occasional sexual dates or can go further to the bonding of some long-lasting friendship.
If one of the members of the couple accepts swing only for the other one's sake, there are many chances that this lifestyle destroys the relationship.
Another problem issued in the couples that are at the first experiences in swing, is JEALOUSY. The best way to make jealousy disappear is communication between the partners. Each couple has its limits and it is for the best that these should be agreed from the very beginning.
Swing can be practiced in three ways:
- Soft swinging: foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but not also the actual vaginal penetration.
- Closed Swing: partners swing, but sex is made in separate rooms, this kind of swing allows a more private experience.
- Open: partners swing, but sex is made in the same room or even in the same bed.
- Cybersex: sexual relationships realized in the virtual world.